Compassion

The fifth and last core value of the Sisters of Charity Health System and the Foundation is compassion. I saved it for last, because compassion is at the very essence of every single thing we do as a ministry. It is an awareness and understanding of the human pain and suffering of others and the desire to do something about it.

I believe that each of us has a sense of compassion. The extent of a person’s compassion varies from individual to individual. In the Bible, God demonstrates his compassion and graciousness in scripture. For example, in Psalm 145:8 and Isaiah 54:8 reference is given to God’s everlasting kindness for each one of us. One of God’s greatest messages to us is that he is compassionate and he expects us to be compassionate as well.

Compassion is a human quality that is divinely inspired. When we see someone that is in distress and we feel their pain as if it were our own and strive to eliminate or lessen it, then this is compassion. Compassion also comes out of having a true understanding of one’s self. We can really see the needs of others more clearly when we truly understand ourselves and can apply that understanding in a compassionate and unselfish way.

I see compassion for the sick and suffering in our hospitals. I see it through our outreach ministries to help low-income fathers and uninsured children. I see it through the work in our Foundation as we reach out to help the poor and underserved of all ages and in every community.

In the New Testament, there is the parable of the Good Samaritan. He happened by a man who had been beaten by robbers. The man was hurt and was avoided by two religious men who walked on the other side of the street. Along came a common man who cared for him and tended to his wounds.

We see those suffering every day in our own lives. Seeing suffering and acting on it are two different things. I feel like we all have the capacity to be compassionate in both big ways and small ways and, to me, it really does not matter which way you choose. What matters, is recognizing the need that someone else has and acting upon that need with whatever means you have.

The best thing of all is that compassion for others is free of charge. It does not cost one single penny to act compassionately towards someone or in some situation. I have been blessed to work with compassionate Sisters and fellow servant leaders. Compassion is one of our core values and it is at the root of all of our work every day.

Tom Keith is the president of the Sisters of Charity Foundation of South Carolina

Prayer

Ever since I got on my knees as a youngster and prayed before going to sleep, I have wondered about and witnessed prayer. The power of prayer can often go unnoticed in our every day lives. It is prayer that gives us a sense of comfort, a sense of hope and a feeling of God’s hand and spirit in our lives.

By sharing our feelings through prayer, we open our hearts to God with a spiritual conversation. To me, it is like talking to a family member in the same room. “Hey God, I have a heavy burden and I need to share it with you.” I want to pray not only when prayer is needed but when prayer is a form of sharing and expressing. When my son leaves to drive back to Atlanta, I pray for him. When I visit my Mother in the retirement home, I pray for her. Prayer has become a daily activity and necessity. The day does not feel complete without it.

Whether you pray alone or pray out loud in a group, it is such a valuable message to God. It connects our lives with God’s purpose for us. We often ask for guidance, wisdom, understanding, healing, patience and gratefulness. It is important to me to always thank God for his presence in our lives and for the many gifts he has given me and my family. Sometimes I feel like I am on life’s treadmill and the machine is going faster and faster and it is difficult to keep up. But it helps to take the time to reflect, meditate and pray.

Prayer may be the best stress reliever we have. What prayer can do for our physical, mental and emotional health is pretty astounding not to mention our spiritual health. Many times my prayers are not very eloquent or even not well thought out. But, the fact that they are heartfelt and well-intended gives me comfort and, I believe, is just fine with God.

I think that prayer is the great connector. We have an opportunity to praise God for his goodness, to ask for his forgiveness, to pray for someone in need, to forgive us of our sins, thank him for the gifts he has given us and to keep us safe. Whatever the reason, God is there for us and is always ready to listen.

Tom Keith is the president of the Sisters of Charity Foundation of South Carolina.