Wisdom

As I think about the “doom and gloom” that faces all of us today, I ask myself “what went wrong?” We find ourselves in such a complicated mess that I think the answer to this question is unachievable, at least, in a single response.

To me, it is a combination of many things that has put this nation, our economy and our future at risk. Furthermore, there is an overarching theme that can apply to the problems that have occurred.

“We have lost our moral compass and our wisdom.” We have become a self-centered, greedy and “instant gratification” society and we are now paying the price for it. It starts in our families and transcends into our schools, businesses, government and financial markets. Moreover, I don’t think we as a society, both individually and collectively, are a bit happier today because of our narcissism. I think we are more frustrated and less satisfied. I think we have created a society full of segregated egos and self-indulgence that overshadows the good things people do in society, and there are many people doing good things. And though there are plenty of these wonderful altruistic people in the world, it seems they are in the minority today.

So what is our moral compass? It is the God given wisdom and virtues that each of us possess in our hearts, minds and souls. It is starting every single day not thinking about what I am going to do for myself but what difference can I make in the world in which I live. Can it be that simple? Well, if we all get up tomorrow and our goal is to be honest, unselfish, virtuous, collaborative and sensitive, would it be different than how we viewed our day today? I say “yes.”

I also think if we were a society of people and not things we would be better off. We have become a people of computers, Blackberry’s, cell phones, video games, I-Pods, Tom-Toms, laptops, etc., and I don’t think it has made us any wiser or more moral. I wish we were more about talking face-to-face with people and making more of an effort to simply listen and interact with others “live and in person.” We are a smarter and more sophisticated society today with access to information instantly, but are we wiser? I am not sure that we are.

We must prioritize our lives and make it important to spend quality time with our families, help our neighbors and fellow citizens and do the right thing for others--even if it means personal sacrifice. I believe it is the only real way we will truly recover from the mess we are in. We must be willing to sacrifice and get away from our self-serving greedy attitudes. If we don’t, I truly believe we can expect, and maybe deserve, more doom and gloom in the future.

It is the wisdom and sensibility that exists in each of us that can guide us through these difficult times and make all of our lives more meaningful and, yes, happier.

Tom Keith is the president of the Sisters of Charity Foundation of South Carolina.